Breakup can be painful regardless of any situation you are in. You know you are not ready for it and you still want some advice to save my marriage. All breakup must be handle delicately and cautiously for a wrong move you can lose your marriage all together.
It is better to cool off and stay put for awhile to make your distance grow fonder. Let yourself ponder with focus how did both of you ever reach this state of breakup and find the inner moves within you to blossom with inner beauty, confidence instead of the nag, anger, distrust you were in that could brought about the breakup.
Is there any expectations of your partner that is not fulfilling that is causing anger, nagging and confusion?
Hear this “Why bother asking him/her to share his/her feelings? He/she will only clam up again!”
With this negative thought, you are allowing generation of insecurity, fear and inadequacy to invade your marriage, your everyday life, you spouse and yourself. Are you having a huge list of negative thoughts? If yes, you need to get rid of it.
You need to control your thoughts to produce more positive communication. Writing them down would be a good way to make you be aware of them. Choose precisely what you think about and you become more focus in a positive direction, more confident in understanding that your marriage is a partnership and needs compromising. Only positive intimate communication can strengthen the bond and save your marriage.
Work with this technique over the cooling off period and you will have the right things to say to him in a calm loving way when you plan to meet up with him. Remember calm and cooling mood will bring love, bliss and laughter back to you.
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