Let’s us think one more time whether your love is genuine enough to restart a marriage.
Here are several test of love which will help you whether you should restart a marriage.
1) The Sharing Test
Are you able to share together? Do you want to make you partner happy or do you want to become happy?
2) The Strength Test.
Does your love give you new strength and fill you with creative energy? Or does it take away your strength and energy?
3) The Respect Test.
Do you really have respect for each other? Are you proud of your partner?
4) The Habit Test
Do you only love each other or do you also like each other and accept each other with your habits and shortcommings?
5) The Quarrel Test
Are you able to forgive each other and give in to each other? The ability to be reconciled after a real quarrel must be tested before you restart your marriage
6) The Separation Test
Do you feel an unusual joy while in company of each other? Is there pain in separation?
7) The Giving Test
Love and marriage are giving, not getting. Are you in love to give? Are you capable of self giving? Is this quality of self giving constantly evident?
The Growth Test
Is you love dynamic in its growth? Is it progressively maturing?
9) The Sex Test
Is there a mutual enjoyment of each other without the constant need of physical expression? If you cannot be together without petting, you do not have the maturity and love important enough to restart your marriage.
Ask yourself these questions and when you restart your marriage, you will now know that your marriage is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person and involves a goal for both of you to work towards to.
