How to handle money issues in a marriage

Mar 10th, 2010

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How can money destroys a relationship

Few couples, especially in the early years of marriage, are independently wealthy. That means a lot of decisions must be made in relationship to

How can money destroys a relationship

money. Some potentially volatile questions pertaining to a couple’s finances include:

1. Who earns the money, one or both?
2. How will the money be spent?
3. Who will manage the checkbook?
4. What is each person’s attitude about credit spending?
5. How much should be saved?
6.Should the couple buy a house, or rent?
7. What is communal property and what belongs to each?

These questions are only examples of the kinds of financial issues with which married couples have to struggle. According to marriage counselors, conflict over money is one of the primary reasons given by couples for seeking professional help.

Serious conflict may be avoided, however, if attitudes and philosophies about finances are clearly communicated prior to marriage, and continually during the marriage to save troubled unhappy relationship

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All serious relationship can be easily solved with in depth relationship communication. We often avoid THOUGHT PROVOKING QUESTIONS ~ most people don’t even think of asking but are absolutely necessary if you want to have a happy relationship.