How to get back with your ex – be MOSTLY, BE PALS

Sep 1st, 2009

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If a friend said to you, “My dream is to change careers. It will mean less money, but I know I will be happier,” or if she said, “My dream is to live near the ocean,” you’d probably be enthused and supportive.

But what if your partner said the same thing to you?
How would you respond?

Would you be supportive, take it to heart, and try to help her make it happen?
Would you automatically disregard it, or in some way minimize it—saying or
thinking, “You can’t (or shouldn’t) do that. It’s not practical. It’s not what I want.”

Obviously, the spirit of your answer is what’s most important. It’s not always possible, practical, or even desirable for your partner to do everything he or she wants to do. You can’t always move or change jobs. We’re not suggesting that it’s necessary to always want what your partner wants, or that it’s your responsibility to make it happen.

When you are good friends first is the best way on how to get back with your ex everything seems to take care of itself. Pals support one another. They are patient and kind, and make allowances for each other’s imperfections. Friends are excellent communicators, and usually very good listeners. Read More Here