FILL YOUR LIFE WITH OPPORTUNITIES TO EXPRESS LOVE
Over the years, many people have shared with us their longing to be “in love.” And while we certainly understand the need and desire to be in a love relationship, it’s important to know that there are many genuine and powerful ways, other than a romantic relationship, to fill your life with
love.
We heard a beautiful and touching story about a friend of a friend. Like many people, she was lonely. She felt empty, as though her life couldn’t possibly be complete without someone to share it with. Her friends, of course, offered all sorts of well-meaning advice; they tried to set her up; challenged her to get out more; directed her to clubs, classes, and other traditional ways
to meet single people. Nothing did the trick.
Then someone suggested that she volunteer her time. For many reasons, the idea struck a chord, so she began volunteering at a nursing home. This simple act of love was the catalyst to changing her life. To make a long story short, she “fell in love with” (metaphorically) a lovely woman in her nineties. The experience of sharing love and giving love opened her heart in ways she had never imagined. She felt appreciated and honored. Her heart opened, and she began to exude love in all aspects other life. She felt happier, more peaceful and fulfilled than ever before. She had expanded her definition of love.
The feeling of love is contagious. When your heart is open and you’re busy sharing your love with others, you draw more love of all kinds in your direction.
It wasn’t long before this woman became involved with a man she had known for a long time, as a friend. Although it would be difficult to quantify, there’s no question that her entire presence had changed due to the love that was now in her heart.
Romantic love, a loving partnership, marriage—all are wonderful. The truth is, however, that there are countless ways to express love and to receive love. You can do so with pets, volunteerism, nature, a good cause, even hobbies. Anything you enjoy, that nurtures your spirit in a loving way,
that allows you to share your love with something or someone else, has the potential to fill your heart with love. One of the most loving times in my life was back in college. I was volunteering as a big brother for the Big Brothers of America organization. The experience changed my life. 1 was
able to spend time with a wonderful little boy who was only six years old at the time. My guess is that it wasn’t a coincidence chat I met him shortly thereafter.
When we are filled with loving feelings, whether those feelings are directed toward humans, animals, God, nature, or simply a love of life, we put ourselves in a position to attract love. When our heart is filled with love, and we are sharing that love, we become kinder, gentler, and more patient.
Our perspective is enhanced and we become more satisfied.
Often, when we’re only looking to be loved, it’s easy to forget how wonderful it is to give love. Yet, when we discover new ways to share our love, an almost magical transformation takes place in our lives. We become more interested in others, more inclusive and wiser. It almost seems like a law of nature—the more ways we discover to express, share, and be loving, the more we find ourselves surrounded by the feeling of love.
Whether you’re in a romantic relationship or not, or whether you want to be in one or not, isn’t critical. Whatever your circumstances, dreams, or preferences, filling your life with opportunities to express your love is always a good idea.
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