Here is something to consider before you give your love or get committed into a relationship to the other person.
- Can you be happy with this person if he or she never changes?
- Are you loving the person you have now or an imaginary dream?
- Can you be happy with this person if he or she changes in ways you never dreamed of?
A love with its roots in commitment will last through the pressures and pain of life’s disappointments
Think about this
Love means to commit yourself without guarantee to give yourself completely in the hope that your love will produce love in the loved person.
Love is an act of faith and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.
The perfect love would be one that gives all and expects nothing.
It would, of course, be willing and delighted to take anything it was offered, the more the better. But it would ask for nothing.
For if one expects nothing and asks nothing, he can never be deceived or disappointed. It is only when love demands that it brings on pain.
Now can you be the person who live up to a committed relationship?