4 Clear Signs to Tell You That Your Marriage is Over and Dead – Do Not Say I Did Not Warn You
By Barbara Kingsley-Johnson
I found this article rather interesting and could be an eye opener for those who need to find out whether a marriage is still worth saving..
There are clear signs to tell you that your is over and dead; but some of us are too blind to see all the writings on the wall that your once happy marriage is already bankrupt and is in serious crisis.
When you started the marriage journey together with your spouse, you pictured an active, happy and successful marriage life for yourself and your partner.
According to Proverbs 30: 33, “The squeezing of the nose is what brings forth blood, and the squeezing out of anger is what brings forth quarreling.”
That small discussion over how to reduce spending may quickly degenerate into an attack on each other’s character (“you are spendthrift”). If your spouse “squeezes your nose” by attacking your character, you may be tempted to retaliate and this may lead into anger and escalation of the disagreement.
Here are 4 clear signs to tell you that your marriage is over and dead. Do not say I did not warn you!
Anger at every little thing
You and your spouse used to discuss and joke over every little issue of life in a hearty and comfortable manner. Now, the smallest word or remark leads to aggressive verbal attack and a violent slap. If this is the case, it suggests a deep-rooted resentment for your spouse.
When marriage mates cannot control their tongue and anger, small remarks can quickly flare into serious fights or conflicts. Marriages that are repeatedly ravaged by such behavior are clear signs to tell you that your marriage is over and dead.
No more sex
Married couples who once frequently enjoyed the marriage bed together now begin to avoid each other like lepers, and there is no sign of making up after series of complaints by one partner, it is a clear sign to tell you that your marriage is over and dead.
In the past, you and your spouse used to share and discuss minor issues together and suddenly, your spouse no longer informs you of a major investment. If your spouse no longer shares common information with you and no longer trust you with information, these are clear signs to tell you that your marriage is heading for the rock.
Late Night phone conversations
If your spouse begins to engage in nightly phone call conversations in a hush and low tone, know that your spouse is already enjoying a secret relationship outside. This is a clear sign to tell you that your marriage is over. Your spouse is already enjoying the relationship outside and is waiting to serve you with divorce papers.
Most marriage mates end up in divorce court because they are too blind to see the clear signs that their marriage is over. They wait until it is too late to get the necessary help to save their marriage and bring back the shine into the relationship.
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