Many marriages die prematurely because too many husbands and wives choose to ignore the inescapable fact the people do change.
People can grow apart even when they truly love and care for each other. For some the resistance to change is so deeply ingrained that acceptance of change, even in someone they dearly love is almost impossible.
However, since it is an indisputable fact of like that people do change and since this is one of the major reasons listed by couples as the source of problems in marriage.
Couples would do well to explore in depth their ability to adjust to the many changes which are inevitable in the years after marriage.
Difficulties may be anticipated if:
Either person seems locked into a way of thinking or behaving which allows for no difference of opinion or new ideas.
Either has communicated to the other what he or she wants in a husband or wife and gives the impression that he or she will not tolerate any deviation from this rigid stance, now or in the future.
One of the individuals demonstrates a desire to grow and improve while the other seems determined to maintain the status quo.
One or both show a noticeable lack of curiosity or interest in the changes which are occurring around him or her from day to day.
Either gets upset easily or acts if the whole day is ruined if things do not go according to schedule or plans are changed. The individual who is unable to adjust to change before marriage is not likely to be able to adjust to change after marriage.
Some events, however come as a surprise and bring tension, pain and unexpected circumstances.
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